New boyfriend still on dating site
I actually had problems taking my profile off a dating website and i still get e-mails from the website saying i have messages! my partner is ok with this as it isn't some thing that is my fault.It depends what website it is but some times there can be issues taking profiles off.He told me he'd do the same and would like to concentrate on us. He told me he was trying to get his profile off but was having problems and then later he said he hoped his profile had gone. He's been on for nearly six months, so I don't know if it's out of habit why he's still on it, or if it's perfectly reasonable that he's on there as we have only been dating a few weeks and haven't yet had the talk about where we are going.I told him I wanted to take things slowly and have made no promises to him about our future, nor have I slept with him yet.But if he is logging on regularly then he probably hasn't tried to take it off. xx from Lexy xx I also had a profile on a dating site and when i deleted it, it still showed up to the public. We're supposed to be out tonight and he knows I've booked a table. Think I probably shouldn't text him again, but would love to explain if he would listen.
I wish I hadn't come off it now, but I can hardly just go back on again as he'll wonder why I've done that. Really not sure I should say something to him about it, as he'll know i've been on checking.
I'm trying to think of reasons why he'd be on it and other than the reasons above, I'm thinking that maybe he's still active as his 6 months is nearly up and he'll get another 6 months free if he's active and if things don't work out with us. I strongly suspect I'm getting stressed over nothing.
He seems a genuinly nice man and says he likes me very much.
I'm thinking I should just bide my time and see if he comes off naturally if our relationship progresses. This is supposed to be an exciting time, but this is casting a bit of a cloud over it Anon, Ive been there with my now bf of 18 months!
He had been on various dating sites before we met and whilst we were together I had a feeling he was still checking his mail and maybe even chatting to others, we really did get on well and I couldn't understand it, to be fair though I was curious who my mail was off for a while so I used to have sneaky peeks.
and you KNOW he was awake long enough to look on the site,so he COULD have sent a text to you if he had been bothered..